“When you expose your wound, healing becomes faster”

When you expose your wound, healing becomes faster. - Aben Garlan

When you expose your wound, healing becomes faster. – Aben Garlan


Happy Mothers Day!

Mothers Day 2014“When you look into your mother’s eyes, you know that is the purest love you can find on this earth.” – Mitch Albom

Happy Mothers Day!

Man in the Mirror

We’ve seen several protests and rallies against the government in different areas, different Cities, even in different countries. Some of them are fighting against corruption, some are fighting against other anomalies, some are fighting for human rights, some against globing warming, while some are fighting for economic change and against poverty.

It’s good that we as human beings should voice out our thoughts, our opinions for the good of the nation. Especially in a democratic country like the Philippines, you can see such activities all over the place. One of the most famous, like what we will be commemorate every February is the EDSA Revolution anniversary (For non-Filipinos, it’s called the People Power Revolution. A kind of revolution that the Filipinos have left as a legacy to the world.)

In the 1980’s, maybe this kind of revolution is effective. But today, that the (Philippine) economy (Stocks and GDP in particular) is increasing, I guess there’s another revolution that we need to do. Not a revolution to change the government, or to change the environment around us, but, to change ourselves. To change for the better, to succeed in life.

It was 12 years ago when I encountered this song by the late Michael Jackson and until now the message applies to each one of us. The chorus goes like this:

I’m starting with The Man In The Mirror

I’m asking him to change his ways

And no message could have been any clearer

If you wanna make the world a better place

Take a look at yourself, and then make a change…

Let us start and sustain this kind of revolution…a revolution for CHANGE and CHARACTER development. Let’s look at the “man (or woman) in the mirror”, working his/her ways to be a brand new person! Because positive change should start from within, not from outside.

This will keep us rejoicing despite the chaos happening around us!  Have a great adventure called life!





Man in the Mirror

Man in the Mirror

The Law Of Connection

The Law Of Connection

One of my favorite leadership quotes, encountered a decade ago. Wow time flies so fast!



Don’t under estimate the importance of building relational bridges between you and the people you lead. There’s an old saying:

To lead yourself, use your head; to lead others, use your heart. That’s the nature of the Law of Connection. Always touch a person’s heart before you ask him for a hand.

John C. Maxwell

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

Sign of God’s Love: The Healing Grace

My healing from Meningitis, suffered from 60/40 life and death situation from March to April 2013. One year after, I feel that I'm fully alive! Apr2013 and May 2014

Healed from Meningitis. Last year from March to April 2013, I suffered  60/40 life and death situation. One year after, I feel that I’m fully alive!
Apr2013 and May 2014

13 months ago, I suffered severely and almost died from Meningitis. A very painful brain infection that almost robbed my life. I battled against 60/40 life-and-death situation. This was how I look  while I’m on my 4th week in the hospital here in Cagayan De Oro City, Philippines.

One year after, this is how I look like. A man fully alive!  This is a clear sign of how God shows His love for me, with His mercy and love, saving me from the verge of death. This is actually the Nth time that God rescued me. I’ve been saved a couple of times from near death situations.

Praise be to God, He never gave up on me.

Thank you Lord for the grace. Thank You for the miracles. Thank You for the gift of life.

And thanks to those who have prayed and helped me in times of difficulties.  May God bless you abundantly!

For those of you who are suffering and in pain, you who feel are in the dark clouds of doubt, believe that God is with you all the way. God is faithful, He will never abandon you. He will never forget you.

If you can’t trace God’s hand, trust His heart!

“Yes you will suffer for a short time. But after that, God will make everything right!” – 1 Peter 5:10